Kids and Computers

Is it Wednesday already? Gulp.

I'm tired of finding my kids glued to the computer screen. They love to play computer games. We have successfully limited Nintendo/PlayStation usage by telling them they can play only on Sat. mornings or if they have guests over who want to play. This rule has worked like a charm. Now it seems I'll have to apply the same strategy to computer use. I told them yesterday that they need to ask permission to use the computer. If they tell me they want to play a game on the computer, they have a 50/50 chance of me saying yes. If they want to use it for learning/research purposes, I'll almost always say yes.

I hate how technology invades our lives. We have to take control over it, or it unwittingly controls us. It demands to have our attention, forcing us to make choices about how to use our time. The computer/internet is a very useful tool for a family, but it also brings a multitude of gaming options for children. I want to see them using the computer for educational purposes, and occasionally using it for recreation. Right now I feel its the other way around at our house. I wonder if boys are more inclined to the games, and girls more into the various communication outlets? I'm trying to gain control of the situation without griping and nagging, yet giving my children some freedom to play on the computer.

As with everything else in this life, Balance is the key!

Rejoice Evermore!
Marla