Today, Clara bit me while she was nursing and the first words out of my mouth were, "Don't bite!" And then it dawned on me. I just said "Don't!" After laughing at myself, I looked into her eyes and I said, "Be gentle!" Then I realized how many other times today, and other times I've said the D word.
"Don't touch the trash can."
"Don't pull Mommy's hair."
"Don't throw your book."
"Don't climb the stairs."
Ahhh. Even though she's only 10 months and doesn't understand, I see that this is a pattern for me, and it will continue to the day that she can understand. Unless I change.
"Let's go play with your toys."
"Be gentle when touching Mommy's hair."
"Be careful with your books."
"Let me help you."
Change is never easy, but it is possible!
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2 comments:
Thank you for pointing out the difference. I think I say don't too much also.
I am going to try to change my ways!
Donna
I am trying to work on this same thing. After reading part of 'For the Children's Sake' I realize how I can distract in more positive ways!
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